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How to say no to "friends and family discount"

"Can I get a friends and family discount?"

Working for people you know is where boundaries go to die. A discount is fine if you choose it. It is not fine if it gets pulled out of you.

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Why this is scope creep

  • Discounted work tends to get the same expectations as full price, plus extra favours.
  • It is harder to push back on scope with friends, so creep is worse, not better.
  • Your rent does not get a friends and family discount.

Copy-paste replies

Fill the [brackets] and send. Pick the tone that fits the client.

Firm

Hey [Name], I really appreciate you thinking of me! I keep the same rate for everyone so it stays fair to my other clients. Here's what the project would cost: [price]. Happy to adjust the scope if that's over budget.

Friendly

I'd love to help! I can't do a discount on my rate, but we can make it smaller: if we drop [item] and do [smaller version], it comes to [lower price]. Would that work?

Yes, for a fee

Hey [Name], sure, I can do [10]% off for you. That's [price], same scope as written here: [link]. Anything outside that list is billed at my normal rate, so we stay friends at the end of it.

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Questions

Is "Can I get a friends and family discount?" scope creep?

Yes, if it was not in the agreed scope. Discounted work tends to get the same expectations as full price, plus extra favours. The fix is not a fight, it is a clear reply that points to the scope and offers a priced option.

How do I say no to a friend asking for a discount?

Thank them, explain you keep one rate for everyone, and offer a smaller scope that fits their budget. You lower the work, not your price.

Should I work for friends and family at all?

You can, as long as there is a written scope and a price just like any client. It protects the friendship as much as the project.

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